Washington Blade - June 12, 2009
Kevin Naff

Last year, many LGBT activists, donors and voters were focused on electing Barack Obama president and expanding Democratic majorities in Congress, while also fighting off anti-gay ballot initiatives in three states, including California. The outcome, of course, was bittersweet as many of us celebrated ObamaÆs victory while mourning the passage of Proposition 8.

The year ahead holds more complicated trials for a movement that is maturing and changing. As our national LGBT rights groups like Human Rights Campaign urge patience and promise that the White House has ôa planö for advancing gay rights initiatives, grassroots organizers arenÆt so sure. There is an overwhelming sense that the Democratic Party is very close to exhausting the collective patience of LGBT Americans who have supported it with money and votes and, so far anyway, received very little in return.

Sure, we get annual Pride proclamations in June. But where are the legislative victories and public support of our congressional allies at this critical time? Since taking control of Congress in 2006, the Democrats have still not managed to pass a single piece of gay rights legislation through both houses.

Last June, candidate Obama issued an open letter to gay voters, pledging his full support for a federal hate crimes law and a trans-inclusive Employment Non-Discrimination Act. He also reiterated his support for a repeal of the Defense of Marriage Act and ôDonÆt Ask, DonÆt Tell.ö

ôAs your president I will use the bully pulpit to urge states to treat same-sex couples with full equality in their family and adoption laws,ö Obama said in the letter.

MUCH HAS CHANGED in recent months for the better, even if itÆs not all attributable to the White House. Same-sex couples are now marrying in six states; the official White House web site includes a list of pro-gay commitments; Obama has named gays and lesbians to several high-level posts, including John Berry at OPM and Kevin Jennings at Education. And recent poll numbers on same-sex marriage rights are cause for celebration. While only 40 percent support full marriage rights, that number jumps to 49 percent among those who know an openly gay person, affirming the importance of coming out. What else could explain the parade of prominent Republicans ù Dick Cheney, Steve Schmidt, Meghan McCain, Ted Olson ù who now support same-sex marriage?

Five months into his administration, ObamaÆs White House has publicly endorsed the hate crimes bill, which passed the House but remains MIA in the Senate. ENDA has not yet been introduced. DOMA remains federal law, even though same-sex couples are now legally married from California to Iowa to Massachusetts. And the militaryÆs gay ban remains in effect, with little hope of repeal this year.

HRCÆs legislative approach ù endorsed by congressional allies ù is to move on hate crimes and ENDA in 2009 with a ôDonÆt Ask, DonÆt Tellö repeal in 2010.

If Congress wakes up and finally passes some of these long-suffering bills, then HRC will claim victory. If, however, our so-called Democratic ôalliesö canÆt pass ENDA and hate crimes and a ôDonÆt Ask, DonÆt Tellö repeal is off the table come December 2009, then the entire movement is a bust and everyone working in it should resign and make way for more effective leadership. There will never be a better time to advance these measures. The Democrats have made lots of promises to LGBT voters and, more importantly to them, to gay donors. WeÆve waited patiently for those politicians to deliver. Come December, my patience runs out. The clock is ticking.

THE UNCERTAIN YEAR ahead illustrates the pitfalls of a maturing movement. Power within that movement is shifting from a centralized few groups that know best to a decentralized mass of grassroots organizers, bloggers and others fed up with the slow pace of change. Rather than fighting religious right zealots, gay rights advocates are debating each other about the best way forward. In addition to resolving internal conflicts over strategy, those same advocates whoÆve been so beholden to Democrats will finally be forced to stand up to the party this year. Will HRC, the Task Force and others aggressively hold Democrats accountable for their myriad promises? IÆm hopeful they will, but history suggests otherwise.

And our challenges arenÆt limited to Congress. Last week, the Blade hosted its first panel discussion featuring LGBT youth and elders and the results were moving, tearful and sometimes startling. The idea was to bring together a handful of youth and elders to talk about coming out, Pride, the state of the movement and more in a casual setting. Karen Taylor, director of advocacy and training for SAGE, acted as facilitator and Andrew Barnett, executive director of SMYAL, participated and recruited youth volunteers. Special thanks to them and to Cathy Renna for her help in coordinating it and to all of our volunteers who are profiled in this issue. Be sure to visit our web site, washingtonblade.com, to watch video of the conversation.

Although there were some common experiences among the panelists, such as coping with disapproving parents, other topics revealed the generational divide, most notably on HIV/AIDS.

Several of the young participants spoke of HIV as ônot their problem.ö HIV is widely viewed among many younger gays as a manageable illness, rather than the death sentence that my generation grew up fearing. Some assumed that HIV will be cured soon and that if you contract the disease, you simply ôtake a pill.ö

Of course, our elders jumped at the chance to remind them of the realities and history of HIV. In Washington, 3 percent are officially infected, but health officials have said the true number is probably closer to 5 percent. These numbers ù and the attitudes of our young panelists ù say a lot more about those of us who survived the æ80s than those who werenÆt alive then. WeÆve failed to teach the painful history of AIDS and imbued young gay people with a false sense of security.

So as we prepare to celebrate another year of Pride, letÆs commit to a few basic tasks in the year ahead. First, no more free rides for Democrats who take our support and then run and hide when we need them most. Second, no more waiting. If legislative advances fail to materialize in 2009, then we need to clean house and staff the professional LGBT rights movement with fresh leadership. And third, we must all do a better job of fighting HIV. ItÆs not the governmentÆs job ù or any AIDS service providerÆs job ù to make sure you use a condom.

HereÆs to Pride 2010, when I hope weÆre celebrating a year of long-overdue victories.
090612
WB090604

Always watch for outdated information. This article first appeared in 2009. This material is designed to support, not replace, the relationship that exists between you and your doctor.

AEGiS presents published material, reprinted with permission and neither endorses nor opposes any material. All information contained on this website, including information relating to health conditions, products, and treatments, is for informational purposes only. It is often presented in summary or aggregate form. It is not meant to be a substitute for the advice provided by your own physician or other medical professionals. Always discuss treatment options with a doctor who specializes in treating HIV.

Copyright ©1980, 2009. AEGiS. All materials appearing on AEGiS are protected by copyright as a collective work or compilation under U.S. copyright and other laws and are the property of AEGiS, or the party credited as the provider of the content. .