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Where men help men

Sunday Times (Johannesburg) - June 5, 2005
Victor Khupiso


THEMBA Mkhize was on the verge of committing suicide when he walked into the Imbizo Men's Health Centre in Kliptown earlier this year.

Weighed down by unemployment and depression, and abandoned by his family, the 47-year-old from Dlamini, Soweto, felt he had nothing to live for.

But all this changed after his visit to Imbizo.

"My perceptions about life have been completely changed," said Mkhize. "This is a solution for men's problems."

The Imbizo men's health centres in Diepkloof and Kliptown - which were officially opened this week - are aimed at helping men sort out their problems. Patients can either have private counselling or attend group sessions.

Topics include communication with partners, impotence, fatherhood, nutrition, depression and HIV/Aids.

The project is funded by the US Agency for International Development.

Co-ordinator Bernard Nhlapo said the centres target men and boys between the ages of 16 and 55. They were aimed at helping men to become the best fathers, husbands, partners and friends they can be.

"We provide them with a comfortable environment in which they feel safe to seek assistance regarding any issues.

"Men do not feel comfortable when they go to clinics to discuss their problems because nurses are females.

"We have doctors, psychologists and male nurses. We also have people who are trained social workers who often give advice on domestic problems.

"Even the receptionist is a man," he said.

Mkhize said:"It's not like in other institutions where you are seen by female nurses. It's difficult to disclose your problems to a woman."
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